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		<title>By: Katinka - Spirituality</title>
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		<dc:creator>Katinka - Spirituality</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 17:24:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think, in general, that this is a very decent yoga teacher. She gave me the first of the tips for &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.allconsidering.com/2009/10-mindfulness-exercises/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;mindfullness&lt;/a&gt; that has brought many of you here (more than 7000 visitors on one day). However, last Friday, due to my own issues, she was not what I needed.
I agree there&#039;s a balance to detachment: too much or the wrong kind and it becomes indifference. Not enough and you get, perhaps, clingy and controlling.
We&#039;re all somewhere on that scale, with other psychological variables mixed in: it&#039;s the human condition.
In general, doris, for a desk worker like me, yoga is very good. It may be a way to control the body, but after days of sitting in one position most of the time, getting into weird poses is a real good way to wind down. Like I said: most of the time I get out of that class with a big smile on my face. Certainly better than trying to fall asleep after a day of sitting in front of a screen and the body underused.
There&#039;s a balance between &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.katinkahesselink.net/sufi/stretching.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;stretching and straining&lt;/a&gt; that is is hard to find. This teacher tries to go slow, to avoid overstraining us. She has a good combination of postures and movement that works for me. That she also has a few personal defects won&#039;t stop me from taking her class tomorrow.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think, in general, that this is a very decent yoga teacher. She gave me the first of the tips for <a href="http://www.allconsidering.com/2009/10-mindfulness-exercises/" rel="nofollow">mindfullness</a> that has brought many of you here (more than 7000 visitors on one day). However, last Friday, due to my own issues, she was not what I needed. </p>
<p>I agree there&#8217;s a balance to detachment: too much or the wrong kind and it becomes indifference. Not enough and you get, perhaps, clingy and controlling. </p>
<p>We&#8217;re all somewhere on that scale, with other psychological variables mixed in: it&#8217;s the human condition. </p>
<p>In general, doris, for a desk worker like me, yoga is very good. It may be a way to control the body, but after days of sitting in one position most of the time, getting into weird poses is a real good way to wind down. Like I said: most of the time I get out of that class with a big smile on my face. Certainly better than trying to fall asleep after a day of sitting in front of a screen and the body underused.</p>
<p>There&#8217;s a balance between <a href="http://www.katinkahesselink.net/sufi/stretching.html" rel="nofollow">stretching and straining</a> that is is hard to find. This teacher tries to go slow, to avoid overstraining us. She has a good combination of postures and movement that works for me. That she also has a few personal defects won&#8217;t stop me from taking her class tomorrow.</p>
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		<title>By: Michael Brian Stone</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michael Brian Stone</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 13:48:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>On the other hand... I&#039;ve had a yoga teacher who was so detached he could not pronounce the words of instruction clearly and may have not brushed his teeth for several months, maybe years.
Detached but cognizant, even involved and emotionally participating, unmoved by the movement. Detachment is the real time recognition &quot;this is not I, that is not I.&quot; At the point of the purest detached state of awareness even I isn&#039;t, All is.
I &quot;stumbled&quot;  upon your blog the very day I began my own I am certain, to help me keep myself and my offering in perspective. &quot;Don&#039;t take yourself to seriously Michael. There is nothing new under the sun.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On the other hand&#8230; I&#8217;ve had a yoga teacher who was so detached he could not pronounce the words of instruction clearly and may have not brushed his teeth for several months, maybe years. </p>
<p>Detached but cognizant, even involved and emotionally participating, unmoved by the movement. Detachment is the real time recognition &#8220;this is not I, that is not I.&#8221; At the point of the purest detached state of awareness even I isn&#8217;t, All is.</p>
<p>I &#8220;stumbled&#8221;  upon your blog the very day I began my own I am certain, to help me keep myself and my offering in perspective. &#8220;Don&#8217;t take yourself to seriously Michael. There is nothing new under the sun.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Doris Jeanette, Psy.D.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Doris Jeanette, Psy.D.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Nov 2009 00:33:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am so glad to hear you say the truth about your yoga teacher.  In general yoga is very, very controlling. Not only does your teacher tell you what you need to do and how...your brain tells your body how to posture.  To achieve emotional health you have to let go of control and let your vital energy flow freely.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am so glad to hear you say the truth about your yoga teacher.  In general yoga is very, very controlling. Not only does your teacher tell you what you need to do and how&#8230;your brain tells your body how to posture.  To achieve emotional health you have to let go of control and let your vital energy flow freely.</p>
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		<title>By: Wendy Gillissen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Wendy Gillissen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 17:52:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great example! The same is true for therapists - as a client you really need to feel they can safely &#039;contain&#039; anything - so they will not be offended personally when  their clients are expressing &#039;not so nice&#039; feelings like anger, grief and such. To be &#039;unconditionally present&#039;.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great example! The same is true for therapists &#8211; as a client you really need to feel they can safely &#8216;contain&#8217; anything &#8211; so they will not be offended personally when  their clients are expressing &#8216;not so nice&#8217; feelings like anger, grief and such. To be &#8216;unconditionally present&#8217;.</p>
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		<title>By: Christine</title>
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		<dc:creator>Christine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Nov 2009 16:27:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;I did not go because I knew that her emotional neediness, her lack of detachment, was going to increase my stress level if I did go.
I guess that’s why detachment is so important in a spiritual teacher.&quot;
Good point!  That was a great illustration of why detachment is so important, something I never really considered before.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;I did not go because I knew that her emotional neediness, her lack of detachment, was going to increase my stress level if I did go.</p>
<p>I guess that’s why detachment is so important in a spiritual teacher.&#8221;</p>
<p>Good point!  That was a great illustration of why detachment is so important, something I never really considered before.</p>
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